pretty as a butterfly
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
It's the baddest arse bull that gets to mate with the female.
If you love someone you should say out loud right then and there, or the moment will pass and you may never get that chance again. Is this realistic??
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
ƸӜƷ…My uncle abused me - a survivor …ƸӜƷ
ƸӜƷ… …ƸӜƷWhat comes into your mind when you look at a butterfly.?
So many things come into my mind. I see beautiful colours. I see something that used to be an ugly moth, a fat ugly caterpillar. Its interesting how a butterfly changes from a slow-moving, fat caterpillar to a colorfully winged, beautiful flying insect.
I have been sexually abused at the age of 9 years. However merely looking at the butterfly has given me the strength to move on with my life.The butterfly has inspired me and i urge all the women out there who have been violated, all those who have been abused, to emerge and transform their statuses just like a butterfly.To be survivors though i know and understand how much it might hurt from deep within.Its not easy to forgive and to forget the horror of being abused but then it will take away our lives if we do not become strong. We have to be fighters and try to stand out and speak so that the next woman does not go through the same horrific ordeal.
A butterfly represents so many things. It gets freedom after the struggle to break out of a cocoon! It teaches us that the sky is the limit. It turns into a beauty and then its free and it starts reaching up; reaching out!“The butterfly that emerges is a survivor with new found freedom and possibilities, new begginigs, It teaches us that the most beautiful things can come out of e strangest moments.We are all on a journey. On this journey we encounter endless turns, shifts, and conditions that cause us to metamorphasize. All change is good - even if it may not seem so at the time. Change is what life is made of and it is necessary to grow and learn. At our journey's end we are inevitably transformed - not at all the same as when we started on the path. this does not necessarily mean that i have totally forgotten about my abuser and the day i was abused. its just that i have refused to let my life be dictaed by my past experiences, and by situations that i cant change. I cant change the fact that i was abused but i surely can change my life right now by not brooding on the past. life is too short for that.
So many things come into my mind. I see beautiful colours. I see something that used to be an ugly moth, a fat ugly caterpillar. Its interesting how a butterfly changes from a slow-moving, fat caterpillar to a colorfully winged, beautiful flying insect.
I have been sexually abused at the age of 9 years. However merely looking at the butterfly has given me the strength to move on with my life.The butterfly has inspired me and i urge all the women out there who have been violated, all those who have been abused, to emerge and transform their statuses just like a butterfly.To be survivors though i know and understand how much it might hurt from deep within.Its not easy to forgive and to forget the horror of being abused but then it will take away our lives if we do not become strong. We have to be fighters and try to stand out and speak so that the next woman does not go through the same horrific ordeal.
A butterfly represents so many things. It gets freedom after the struggle to break out of a cocoon! It teaches us that the sky is the limit. It turns into a beauty and then its free and it starts reaching up; reaching out!“The butterfly that emerges is a survivor with new found freedom and possibilities, new begginigs, It teaches us that the most beautiful things can come out of e strangest moments.We are all on a journey. On this journey we encounter endless turns, shifts, and conditions that cause us to metamorphasize. All change is good - even if it may not seem so at the time. Change is what life is made of and it is necessary to grow and learn. At our journey's end we are inevitably transformed - not at all the same as when we started on the path. this does not necessarily mean that i have totally forgotten about my abuser and the day i was abused. its just that i have refused to let my life be dictaed by my past experiences, and by situations that i cant change. I cant change the fact that i was abused but i surely can change my life right now by not brooding on the past. life is too short for that.
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